Are any of us perfect? I mean, I’m sure that a lot of us realize that we’re not actually perfect…and the few that do believe they’re perfect are often blind narcissists with no hope for redemption…hehehe, and therefore NOT perfect! Honestly, that’s not even something that I would ever want to shoot for. If perfection is determined by some sort of direct formula or standard, if it’s a bunch of little boxes that all have to be checkmarked to be considered a part of that group…then I’d think that would mean it’s our imperfections that make us different. Unique. Hell, even mildly interesting. Who would want to toss that aside from a life free from stress, worry, and pain? Am I right? Hehehe! We’re not perfect…our characters shouldn’t be perfect either. This month…we talk character flaws.
Now, when I say the word ‘flaw’, I don’t you guys to start cringing and worrying and shouting out, “But I don’t WANT my main characters to become unlovable douchebags!!!” Shhhh, calm down. It doesn’t have to go that far. Ok? Character flaws can be minor. They can be human. And if you plan ahead and play your cards right, you can use those flaws and the flaws of your love interest, to build a wonderful story arc where your characters learn to battle those demons and overcome those flaws for an amazing story that can get your readers to think, evolve, and maybe even change themselves. It’s all in the way you put it together in your story.
So, what are flaws? What are we talking about here? That’s the big question, right? Well, I happen to be a very flawed individual myself, and I’m fully aware of what those flaws are. That’s what helps me maintain a conscience about them and try to fix them when they get in the way of me being a decent human being. Naturally, as a writer’s creation is always a reflection of the writer, those flaws trickle down to my characters, and I use them as chess pieces to tell a bigger story and to hopefully have a deeper theme. Even if it’s done in a slightly exaggerated way.
It’s easy to want your protagonist to be a good soul and a true angel, through and through. Even easier for your main love interest to shine even brighter and be even more magnificent, to the point where the entire choir of Heaven shouts down at you from the clouds above at his mere appearance. Ohhhhh, Hallelujah! But as tempting as it is to do that, you’re going to end up running out of things to say VERY quickly. There would be no conflict. No adversity. No challenge. What would you do for the rest of the story?
“I love you.”
“I love you more.”
“No, I love YOU more!”
“Unh unh…I love YOU more, times infinity!”
Yeahhh…don’t spend ten pages doing that to your readers. That’s just plain mean. Hehehe!
When I speak about character flaws, I’m talking about typical human traits that could somehow be used to add a touch of literary color to what you’re writing. Maybe your main character is a great guy, but he has a bit of a jealous streak. He’s involved in his first gay relationship ever, and his brand new boyfriend is talking to the star quarterback of the football team? How would you feel? I have written stories where one of the boys was ‘out and proud’, but his boyfriend wasn’t. There’s a slight friction there. I wrote a story where the main character was the victim of physical abuse from his father, and finds it hard to even believe in himself enough to approach his own boyfriend without being suspicious. I’ve written about people who have had their hearts broken before and are afraid to love again, boys who feel inadequate because of their financial status, or boys who think the person they’re in love with is so far out of their league that even trying to ask them out seems like a waste of time. These are all HUMAN traits. They’re situations that we’ve all dealt with in one way or another. Some people are painfully shy, some have a mean streak in them, some have religious constraints, some have age restrictions, some have problems with alcohol, or drugs, or just an unhealthy connection to their ex-boyfriend. These things can be used to enrich your characters and give them an added level of depth, they’re not meant to ruin them or make them unlikable. Not at all. In fact, the very concept of dealing with these personality flaws can become the backbone of your story and make it an exciting read for everyone who’s reading it. While the loving relationship, the breathless kisses, and of course…the mind-blowing SEX…is the centerpiece of most erotic stories, how much cooler would it be to also touch on a partner dealing with substance abuse? Or maybe cheating on their significant other? Or maybe keeping people at arm’s length because he’s scared of commitment? Everything from the insecurity of being with an online ‘celebrity’, to the aggravation and agony of a long distance relationship, can become an enthralling part of your project, and it might just touch people in a deeper way than you ever thought possible.
To me? A super hot, super perfect, person…falling for another super hot, super perfect, person…doesn’t hold much entertainment value. It’s GREAT for a ten minute session of ‘cocking the shotgun’, hehehe! But once you clean up, who really remembers that? It’s not that I don’t understand the true intention of erotica, but if it doesn’t feel like a real experience to your readers…then it becomes less about your writing and more about their fantasies. Which would mean…they could get the same thing anywhere. From anyone. If you want to stand out, never be afraid to add a little extra layer to your stories and have an impact. I’m not saying that you have to turn it into a soap opera about something else entirely, but drawing attention to little flaws and having them deal with it between marathons of naked sex-capades will only help you to stand out even more. And it’ll keep people coming back for the next story you write. And the next. and the next.
I’m thinking that’s a goal a lot of us are working towards when writing.
Always remember to explore and embrace your characters’ flaws when you’re writing them into your story. Sometimes, it can end up making them stand out and give your readers something that they can relate to!
I hope this helps you guys out with you’re writing! And always remember, we’re looking for new talent right here on Imagine Magazine! So contact me at Comicality@webtv.net if you want to take a shot! Cool?