Have you ever dreamed of being intimately involved with a full blown celebrity? Like…outrageously gorgeous, sweet, sexy, extremely cute, super talented, and adored by millions of people who would be so JEALOUS over the fact that you were the one that got to his heart first? Hehehe, sounds like heaven, doesn’t it?
But…is it though?
If you had a celebrity boyfriend who was invited to all of the big parties and award shows, gracing the covers of all the magazines, doing sexy photo shoots, being lusted after by strangers who might want to take him away from you, a passion and a career that might keep them busy six days out of the week, traveling all around the globe to promote himself…I mean, could you handle all of that and still be happy?
How would you feel about that? Would you feel insecure about the idea of other boys wanting him just as badly if not more so as you do? Could you deal with him being so busy and so far away from you for long periods of time? Can you date him out in public? Would the money and the fame get to you over time, once the novelty of it all has worn off? Like…how do you see yourselves dealing with this kind of relationship? And do you think you could make it work, despite the obstacles working against you? Let us know!
You’ve got your dream boy! Now…what are you gonna do with him? Hehehe! ๐
โI can’t say that I have ever thought / fantasised about dating a celebrity. I mean, there are hot celebs I’d sleep with etc, even date, but their “celebritism” has never been a part of any fantasy I’ve had.
And honestly, I don’t think I could cope with it, in real life. Just too much public attention and scandal and everything else involved. If they were a famous AUTHOR though, like, say Stephen King (not that I would want to date him personally), then it’s a little different because they’re not as obsessed about by the media and the paparazzi. I guess my main point is that it’s not their fame that makes someone attractive to me, and ideally my partner wouldn’t be a public figure.โ – Mike
โWould be heaven
Dating someone like Johnny Orlando would be heaven indeed. I don’t think the celebrity part has anything to do. I just find him attractive and I dream about him.
As for what I would do with him… I think part of the fun would be to do things that make him happy. That’s part of loving someone. Of course I would like it if he wanted to sleep with me but that would totally be up to him.โ – Alexander
โWell…I definitely would have liked to have sex with Jeremy Sumpter (or at least make out with him for an hour) when I was a teenager, but to actually be in a relationship with him? I probably wouldn’t go that far. I mean, sure, having all of that money and a fancy house in Hollywood would be cool, but at the cost of having no privacy? Being under the spotlight 24/7, having cameras follow you everywhere you go? No thanks! I’d much rather stay anonymous.โ – Page Scrawler
โI think it used to work
Back when n there was no social media etc there was allot more privacy for famous people.
Now it’s like they are never “off the clock” and although I could handle them being in the limelight, I would not want to be dragged into it just by association. To be honest I think I’d find it just too exhausting.โ – Dom
I had a crappy past. Raised in a household where I had to pretend I was something or someone that I was not; being the oldest of three in a toxic environment. In day-to-day life, I would be the one to dedicate most of his time to redirecting the crap coming from that bottle that claimed to be the man of the house. I had to be stronger than I actually was, I had to make myself out to be a moving target that held the old man’s attention. Being Gay would have been an easy target for him but in my eyes,it would have given him power to justify what he was doing. So, I kept that to myself at all costs. Which sucked even if “being straight” did result in a ton of fun experiences with straight friends because we were both straight and ‘where could it possibly go’ right? But I would often develop real crushes that I absolutely couldn’t pursue. Be it with straight friends or, with someone I was absolutely enamored with on the big or small screen. Someday I should make a list of all the crushes I had ranging from the puppy-love crush where I just wanted to be close to that person to a time I absolutely wanted to be naked and physical, and also be close to them, LOL! Leading back to this question. So ‘preteen me’ had an undying love for Henry Thomas. I had no idea what that meant at the time other than I just wanted him to be a part of my life. As time went on, it became a crush that I wished could be a relationship, and as an adult, thinking back to it and still seeing him do new stuff, I STILL think ‘wouldn’t it be awesome…’ and let my imagination run. He has a family, he ended out with a good life off screen and even aged really well.
I know there would have been times when the spotlight could only fit him and honestly, that would be a constant reminder of how I first learned of his existence. But at the end of the day, he has proven that he can separate work from home and to me says that there is room in his life for a significant other. There are many sacrifices that need to be made when the general public thinks they own a piece of you and if you are an entertainer, there is some truth to that. You are the product you are offering to make a living. Of course, that also means others will be hoping for the exact same thing I was. If ever in that position, I’d like to think I could deal with the fact that people would literally offer themselves to him as can happen but that he would still know where home is. I mean, he did end out getting divorced but, I don’t know the cause. I want to believe that it just didn’t work out and had nothing to do with his career. Even the answer to that could be something to imagine, right? But I think I would be strong enough to trust and work hard to make it work, as long as it’s me he’s still coming home to. End of the day, this relationship has existed in my head from like 1982 on so…yeah, I can be patient when he’s away. Hehehe! ๐ – JeffsFort
โAs much as I feel like I would really LOVE to have myself an extremely cute celebrity boyfriend on my arm, someone that I can show off to my friends and have them wish beyond all wishes…to have money and fame and the whole red carpet access…I honestly think that I would quickly become unhappy with the whole situation.
First of all…I can be selfish with my affections. Hehehe, it’s true. When you’re famous, you have to go out there and share yourself with the rest of the world. And I would be able to step aside and give someone I love the spotlight for a little while, but sooner or later, I want my own spotlight. I want to be the center of my boyfriends’ attention. It doesn’t have to be every day, but if you’re so famous that you have to give yourself to the rest of the world to the point where there’s nothing left for me when you get home? Then I’m going to start feeling neglected and unsatisfied. I don’t think that I’d be able to help it. I think I would have an issue with a relationship that I felt was lacking in some way.
It would be nice for a while, though. I could definitely go for some hot and naughty times with the boys I see on TV and in movies…but it just seems like it would be more fun in theory than in practice. You know? Maybe some dreams are better left as just that….dreams.โ – Comicality
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